One Day at a Time


You can't have everything.
Where would you put it?

Steven Wright.

Id thought marriage alone would heal all the hurts Id gathered up in my life. My husband, also the product of a dysfunctional family, felt the same way. We quickly learned that our love for each other was not enough to our emptiness.

I was used to using food to temporarily fill my inner-holes; he was used to abusing another substance to fill his. Neither worked well, and we soon discovered that buying things we didnt need would help to temporarily fill some of our hurts. Pretty soon we had a house that was full of things wed bought that had given only a few moments of pleasure at best.

One of the benefits of program life is that Ive learned to fill the holes within me in ways that really work. I want to make my life more simple and less cluttered. Three years later, Im still getting rid of things we bought and never used again. But the best part is we can go to the mall when we really do need something and not feel the compulsion to buy something we dont need.

One day at a time...
I will use the lessons I've learned working the program to finally heal the hurts within me instead of looking for material things to repair these inner-holes.

~ Rhonda H.

Meditations Index
Recovery Site Map
Recovery Main Page
The Twelve Traditions
The 12 Steps of Recovery
Recovery Message Board
Recovery Online Meetings
Serendipity ~ Our Newsletter

Copyright 1995 ~ 2006 THE RECOVERY GROUP All rights reserved