Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Just walk beside me and be my friend.
When I first joined OA, the tool and tradition of Anonymity seemed a little strange to me. Whatís wrong with people knowing what members do for work? Iím not ashamed of my career, why should I not talk about it? Whatís with this cult-like behaviour around initials for names? And what do they mean by Anonymity being the spiritual foundation of recovery?One day at a time ...
And then, bit by bit, it dawned on me. When we donít talk about our jobs, when we donít care about our last names, three very important things happen. First, we donít get distracted. Second, it makes us all equal. Third, it starts us on the road of leaving judgment behind. An Elizabeth is just an Elizabeth, whether sheís a queen, a unemployed single mother or an actress. The equality that comes with that means that I am not more or less, not better or worse than you. This equality strengthens our unity. We are all in the same boat. And with this equality we can row in unity towards recovery.
I will remember that my fellow OA members are my equals, that I can let go of judgment, and that the freedom that comes with this helps me concentrate on recovery.
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