This topic could be interpreted in two ways and at the meeting, people shared on both. I shared at the meeting on taking my own inventory since I am just starting step four, but right now I am thinking of all the times that I have taken other's inventory. This seems to happen a lot and I never recognized it for what it is before I joined the program.
My husband is probably my biggest "victim" in this. Poor guy. I keep saying that, but then continue to do the things I do with him, including almost constantly taking his inventory. It's a whole lot easier to take his than to try to work on mine. Unfortunately, this is not going to help me any. I need to put the focus directly on myself, where it should be, and quit worrying about others and what their problems and idiosyncrasies may be.